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Is lesbian sex really sex? I was watching saving face about two chinese lesbians and a mother of one of them who is 48 and having a guy. I was just wondering cuz they are not really in there and a guy could do that too except for the looks. well give me an opion and check out the movie if it interest you. | well i looked it up in the merriam-webster dictionary... I didnt like the answer myself... here is what i got...
"either of the two major forms of individuals that occur in many species and that are distinguished respectively as female or male especially on the basis of their reproductive organs and structures"
Now i dont agree with that definition. Now lets take a look at how the law in CA looks at sex.. its simply a form of penitration from one person to the other...
honestly i read a story and i dont have the quote on who and were it read it but there was a man who stuck his fingure in a womans ear!!!! and he is a registered sex offender...
So bottom line its good to know what the random public think and call "sex"... If two women are doint there thing and end up playing with what makes up there gender.. and it makes them feel good.. sure its sex
One more example.... ( i like this one the best)
we have all heard of STD's right... and it stand for...Sexually transmitted diseasse
according to the same dictionary used above std's are dicribed as...
"any of various diseases or infections (as syphilis, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and genital herpes) that are usually transmitted by direct sexual contact "
Well lesbian, bi, gay or straight can get an std... and its from a sexual act so some one out there must think that women who like women or however you wanna look at it.. can get an STD... so until they come up with a new name for the old STD... it dont matter you get and std from sex.. there for they can have sex...
sorry so long winded but you get my point | So all lesbian(girls) only like sex? hi! guyz, call me lovehate pilipino..,female...,i want to ask and shared something...,to lesbian (gilrs)...,
still now asking myself what i want??? stay what iam now or who iam??? bi-curious...,
ill never attracted girls in my own race...,but honestly speaking im attracted chinese girls...,i like them the most...,funny,friendly and clever...,
one day i try to find a website/chat with bi/lesbian(girls) to figure out something...,
i knew les girl that site...,i think she's nice...,first she's talk nice and im happy chat with her...,we talk everything about me and her...,but suddenly conversation change she talks strange...,she wants sex with me...,so horrible...,i feel really shock and scared...,and feel me sad...,hmmm...
i like only there to know les/bi to be friends..,to know there worlds...just like that...,
so do all lesbian(girls) only like sex???
thanks guyz...takecare! GODBLESS! | | Fallacy: hasty generalisation. While I am sure that a majority of the world's population enjoys sex, one particular instance with a lesbian in a chatroom wanting sex does not mean that *all* lesbians want *only* sex. Of course, other lesbians could want actual relationships with sex included. | A song about women who doesn't make sex without being truly loved? It doesn't matter if it's a lesbian , gospel , or japanese or chinese song, just send the lyrics and the translation(if it's not in english but is not necessarily!! | "Cherish" by Madonna
"Like a Virgin" by Madonna | There is no way I could be a lesbian? A few days ago, it all came together and it just clicked - I could be a lesbian?
I read that to be lesbian, you have to physically and emotionally be attracted to females. Please correct me if I'm mistaken.
100% of my fantasies are lesbian. No hetero whatsoever. It appears that females turn me on, whereas males just don't. I find a male's genitals gross (offence not intended) and I would never have their well.. penis inside me. I just don't like the thought of it.
When I am close to a female (as in friendship) I tend to be more physically close to them. This rarely seems to happen with a guy, if ever. I find the female anatomy much, much more interesting than a male's. If I see a beautiful female.. my insides go all you know, messy. My heart seems to skip a beat and I can't help but stare at them. I have to actually force myself to look away before I look like a weirdo.
I feel that in my heart I am drawn to females. I feel that on I don't know, on Sunday morning I would wake up to a female. I feel that females understand more and in general, they're just way better than males. (again no offence intended.. I think girls tend to more compassionate and I love that)
Even though I seem not to be physically or emotionally attracted to men, I see that I will be married to a man. Maybe this is because that is seen as 'normal'.. I have no desire for men.
So I mashed up all of this together the past couple of months and it just all suddenly clicked - I could be a lesbian. But I can't be. My family.. Okay let me put it this way. When my aunt (who is Chinese. I should mention I'm Chinese. Anyway, my aunt FROM my dad's side) married my uncle (who is black), my uncles and aunts (from my mom's side) were gossiping about it. You see, in our family, the 'normal' 'tradition' is to marry another Chinese person who is of the opposite sex. But we (my cousins, siblings etc) were born in the Western world so basically we're Chinese on the outside, but totally 'white' in the inside..
My point is: they will reject, gossip, and absolutely slaughter me. As far as I know, if I'm a lesbian, I will be the ONLY non-straight person in my whole family, including extended. (I think my cousins and siblings will understand... But certainly not the older ones)
There is just no way I can be a lesbian... advice would be much appreciated. And thank you for reading this very long question.. | There's nothing you can do to change your sexual orientation, love. If you're a lesbian, you're a lesbian. Accept it, embrace it, and, in the words of the late, great Harvey Milk, "Come out, come out wherever you are!"
You're under no obligation to your family or to anybody else to try to pretend to be somebody you're not, or to live a lifestyle that isn't right for you. If your family can't accept the fact that you're gay, then they don't really love you for whom you are, and losing them will be no loss to you at all. Instead of worrying about trying to appease them, you should focus on finding a girlfriend and other friends who will love and respect you for whom you truly are (in addition to fulfilling your school- and work-related obligations, natch). If you need outside assistance in coming to terms with your personal issues, seek one-on-one counseling or join an LGBT support group like PFLAG, the Metropolitan Community Church, or the Gay Straight Alliance.
Good luck! | Am I lesbian ? bisexual or straight ? 1) Guyhood: When I was 8, I remember feeling really excited when I looked at pictures of girls in bikinis. I also like playing barbies because partially I want to look pretty like them ....at the same time, I felt excited as I take off their clothes. I also had a little crush on my male cousin.
2) Middle School - I went to all girls school. I had 3 crushes that involed girls. I imagined kissing them, holding hands with them and living with them. I thought it was normal. I would pay attention to their class schedules and made sure I saw them when I walked passed the classrooms. Another one involving me and my chinese teacher, who treated me really well since I was the top student in the class.
3) High School - Coed: I was really emotionaly attached to a few guys. I imagined holding their hands. I felt hurtful when they did not consider me romaticaly. I know that I still check out girls pretty often. I remember a few times when wanting to touch my good friends in a sensual way (of course I did not do it in the end).
4) College - I started to catch myself looking at boobs, legs really often. Sometimes, they make me hard to breath. I imagined stripping girls and touching them. Interestingly, I also look at guys' body really often but it's harder for me to feel excited. (probably because there are less handsome guys out there while there are a lot of hot girls) I also fantacise about some of my really good friends whom I am emotionally attached. I have imagined having sex with some handsome guys whom I don't know.
Some of my friends just said I have not met the right guy ~ I really don't know whether I have a lesbian/ bisexual tendency. | | I would probably say that you're bisexual as you find both sexes attractive to a degree. Perhaps you find girls more attractive because you're a girl yourself and they're easier to make friends with and relate to. Also this could have been influenced by you going to an all-girls school. Actually, if that makes you feel any better = there's a theory that every single human being is bisexual. It has even been proven that guyren do go through a level of intense homosexual attraction; you must have noticed that little guyren have a preference to play with members of their own sex. | Help !!! Am I lesbian or bisexual ? or simply straight thinking too much? 1) Guyhood: When I was 8, I remember feeling really excited when I looked at pictures of girls in bikinis. I also like playing barbies because partially I want to look pretty like them ....at the same time, I felt excited as I take off their clothes. I also had a little crush on my male cousin .... but nothing that makes me excited except for blush on my face.
2) Middle School - All girls: I went to all girls school. I had 3 crushes that involed girls. I imagined kissing them, holding hands with them and living with them. I thought it was normal. I would pay attention to their class schedules and made sure I saw them when I walked passed the classrooms. Another one involving me and my chinese teacher, who treated me really well since I was the top student in the class.
3) High School - Coed: I was really emotionaly attached to a few guys. I imagined holding their hands but nothing like kissing them and having sex with them. I felt hurtful when they did not consider me romaticaly. I know that I still check out girls pretty often. I remember a few times when wanting to touch my good friends in a sensual way (of course I did not do it in the end).
4) College - I started to catch myself looking at boobs, legs really often. Sometimes, they make me hard to breath. I imagined stripping girls and touching them. Interestingly, I also fantacise about guys whom I am emotionally attached. But I never have met a man / guy that make me wanna say "I want him !!".
Some of my friends just said I have not met the right guy ~ I really don't know whether I have a lesbian/ bisexual tendency. | | I think you're a lesbian... Since you definitely have sexual desire for girls. For guys you should have met some hot ones that you don't LOVE but want to have sex with them... If youve never had sexual desire/ fantasies for guys, its quite obvious that you're a lesbian. | HELP!! Absolutely confused !! Am I lesbian or bisexual? 1) Guyhood: When I was 8, I remember feeling really excited when I looked at pictures of girls in bikinis. I also like playing barbies because partially I want to look pretty like them ....at the same time, I felt excited as I take off their clothes. I also had a little crush on my male cousin .... but nothing that makes me excited except for blush on my face.
2) Middle School - All girls: I went to all girls school. I had 3 crushes that involed girls. I imagined kissing them, holding hands with them and living with them. I thought it was normal. I would pay attention to their class schedules and made sure I saw them when I walked passed the classrooms. Another one involving me and my chinese teacher, who treated me really well since I was the top student in the class.
3) High School - Coed: I was really emotionaly attached to a few guys. I imagined holding their hands but nothing like kissing them and having sex with them. I felt hurtful when they did not consider me romaticaly. I know that I still check out girls pretty often. I remember a few times when wanting to touch my good friends in a sensual way (of course I did not do it in the end).
4) College - I started to catch myself looking at boobs, legs really often. Sometimes, they make me hard to breath. I imagined stripping girls and touching them. Interestingly, I also fantacise about guys whom I am emotionally attached. But I never have met a man / guy that make me wanna say "I want him !!".
Some of my friends just said I have not met the right guy ~ I really don't know whether I have a lesbian/ bisexual tendency. | | YES | Help !! Am I Bisexual or Lesbian ? or Am I straight ? 1) Guyhood: When I was 8, I remember feeling really excited when I looked at pictures of girls in bikinis. I also like playing barbies because partially I want to look pretty like them ....at the same time, I felt excited as I take off their clothes. I also had a little crush on my male cousin.
2) Middle School - I went to all girls school. I had 3 crushes that involed girls. I imagined kissing them, holding hands with them and living with them. I thought it was normal. I would pay attention to their class schedules and made sure I saw them when I walked passed the classrooms. Another one involving me and my chinese teacher, who treated me really well since I was the top student in the class.
3) High School - Coed: I was really emotionaly attached to a few guys. I imagined holding their hands. I felt hurtful when they did not consider me romaticaly. I know that I still check out girls pretty often. I remember a few times when wanting to touch my good friends in a sensual way (of course I did not do it in the end).
4) College - I started to catch myself looking at boobs, legs really often. Sometimes, they make me hard to breath. I imagined stripping girls and touching them. Interestingly, I also fantacise about guys whom I am emotionally attached. I have imagined having sex with some handsome guys.
Some of my friends just said I have not met the right guy ~ I really don't know whether I have a lesbian/ bisexual tendency. | | You sound like you're bisexual. Maybe you should sleep with a married couple and see which you like best. | Girls, what would you do if you suddenly became a guy for 1 hour? last night i asked a question " guys, what would you do if you suddenly became a girl for 1 hour" and the answers were like, " finger myself" " take pics and save them for later" " have a lesbian sex" and blah blah blah. ( guys are perv!")
so girls, suppose you suddenly became a guy and you know you are goin back to normal yourself 1 hour later.
what would you do with a man's body?
me? since i'm on a hard diet now , i would simpy go to a chinese buffet and pig out whatever i wanna eat for 1 hour. lol | | I would go to a bar and hang out with the guys and get them all really drunk and ask them what they truly think about women and ask how many have cheated on their wives or girlfriends and why. I would then tell them that I have cheated and i feel just a little bad for doing it but not bad enough to stop and tell them who i sleep with of course i would say it was with me I cheated with. Then i would ask if they ever slept with so and so. By then the hour is just about up so i head for the bath room come back as myself and walk up to them and say your all busted and i 'm going to tell everyone of your wives/girlfriends who you been with the whole time you been married . That would be so great to hear what they talk about and do when they are all together without the wives. And how far they would go if they knew they could get away with it. | LESBIAN FRIEND!!! HELP here at LT? i hav this friend named alexis, she is part chinese, african, phillipino, and part border runner a.k.a. MEXICAN! well she has a thing for like every girl in our highschool. everytime i walk or see her in the hallway she is either eyeballing girls asses or even sometime touching them in a "seductive" type way! she says she's going to make out with everyone of them by her graduation but im worried she will get every STD that comes into contact with other Bi-Sexuals! what should i do to help this SEX MANIAC FRIEND??????? | ok first of all whats up with the stupid phrase " border runner"? is that even relevant to this question???
anyways and i think you should mind your own buisness and let your friend do whatever she wants....and if you cant deal with it then you dont need to be friends with her....... |
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